Why do Humans Play Games With Love?

 For many this would be a simple question. For past time we play sports and activities in order to have fun and escape reality. What happens though when the time that you are passing belongs to someone else? I am talking about matters of the heart, and the games that we play with others. No one likes to have his or her time wasted. I know I do not. Have you ever looked into the relationships of your past, or even the one you might be in now and examined the games that are played? We bargain with our love to get what we want. Often times we bargain with other matters as well, more discreet matters.

All in all we use each other to get the things we need. Sometimes it is to get ahead. Oft times it is to not be alone. However, we do all of these things in the name of love, or at least in the search of this great mysterious feeling. The biggest issue we face today is the lack of knowledge about what love is and how it affects each of us. We all want that long loving relationship, but unfortunately we often find it in what we cannot have or should not want. This is where the game begins and is played out and the moment we get something that is all ours for the taking we no longer want that. It becomes boring to us, no longer a challenge.

In this short blog series we will cover what love is from a pragmatic view. We will also discover how it can be made to truly last with the right person, and hopefully how to steer clear of the wrong person!